{"id":2989,"date":"2007-05-17T08:37:30","date_gmt":"2007-05-17T08:37:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/?p=156"},"modified":"2007-05-17T08:37:30","modified_gmt":"2007-05-17T08:37:30","slug":"kucuk-kiz-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/?p=2989","title":{"rendered":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck K\u0131z"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u00c7ocuklara merhamet duymayan\u0131m\u0131z var m\u0131d\u0131r? Masum bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131na i\u00e7i titremeyenimiz?<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ok yo\u011fun etkiler onlar\u0131. Hen\u00fcz yenidirler hayat yolunda; normal oldu\u011funu bilmezler, y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131rlar hemen. Sonra da \u00e7abucak unutuverirler ya\u2026 sanki hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fclmemi\u015f gibi. Ne ho\u015ftur: Ba\u015flarlar k\u0131k\u0131rdamaya.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk mutluysa mutludur, kederliyse kederli\u2026 Ve bu duygular\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131 s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131na ya\u015far, ertelemez.<\/p>\n

Ben k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 biraz daha k\u0131r\u0131lgan bulurum. O y\u00fczden de daha \u00e7ok etkiler beni onlar\u0131n kederi. Sevindi\u011finde de i\u00e7i i\u00e7ine s\u0131\u011fmaz, ta\u015far sanki bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131n. Ac\u0131lar olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rm\u0131\u015f insan\u0131\u2026 Bu ya\u015fta m\u0131? Olgunla\u015fmas\u0131n! \u0130stemem\u2026 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z, hi\u00e7 ama hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fclmesin isterim\u2026<\/p>\n

Bebekleriyle oynar, bilmeden d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ac\u0131mas\u0131z ger\u00e7eklerini\u2026 Evrenin anas\u0131d\u0131r; daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fckken anad\u0131r o\u2026 Umut verir; avutur bebe\u011fini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck kollar\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130nsana \u00e7ok iyi bildi\u011fi kendini, kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r \u00e7ocuklar. Mutluluklar\u0131 kat\u0131ks\u0131zd\u0131r; bulutsuz, apayd\u0131nl\u0131kt\u0131r sevin\u00e7leri\u2026<\/p>\n

Cumhuriyet\u2019in 50. y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcnde, Prof. Dr. Hamide Top\u00e7uo\u011flu<\/strong>, bir sosyolog ve bir Cumhuriyet kad\u0131n\u0131 olarak S\u00fcmerbank dergisine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaz\u0131da, Cumhuriyet\u2019imizin ilk y\u0131llar\u0131na rastlayan \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00f6z ediyordu:<\/p>\n

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\u201cBiz ger\u00e7ekten ayr\u0131cal\u0131kl\u0131 idik, yani k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda \u2018k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenci\u2019 olmak gibi bir itibar fazlal\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131. B\u00fct\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fckler, erkeklere g\u00f6stermedikleri bir takdir fazlas\u0131n\u0131 bize ay\u0131r\u0131yorlard\u0131. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kamu hayat\u0131na, sosyal ili\u015fkilere tam bir yetki ve ki\u015filik \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7inde kat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 ama\u00e7 edinen Cumhuriyet\u2019in \u00f6nc\u00fcleriydik biz.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cEn ba\u015fta gelen \u00f6zelli\u011fimiz kendimizden, insanl\u0131k de\u011ferimizden hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphe etmeyi\u015fimizdi. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu olman\u0131n bir eksiklik oldu\u011funu akl\u0131m\u0131zdan bile ge\u00e7irmiyorduk.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026 \u0130\u00e7imizde nas\u0131l bir \u2018g\u00fcven duygusu\u2019 vard\u0131! H\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015fa\u015far\u0131m ve \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumun en fazla hasretini \u00e7ekti\u011fim yan\u0131 bu duygu olmu\u015ftur.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn \u015fehirlerimizin sokaklar\u0131ndaki kad\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fclerine bak\u0131nca, bu ayd\u0131n T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6zlerinden etkilenmemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Haks\u0131z ve \u00e7ok yanl\u0131\u015f bir geriye gidi\u015fe kat\u0131lmaktan ne umabilir insan? Nas\u0131l bir ruh haliyle i\u00e7ine sindirebilir? Bu cans\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa, bu co\u015fkusuzlu\u011fa nas\u0131l katlanabilir?<\/p>\n

Biliyor musunuz? Ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda olursa olsun, her kad\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde bir mutlu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z vard\u0131r; umut dolu, co\u015fku dolu, tasas\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026 Ne \u00fcmitsizdik ne de gayretsiz. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n kendisine de, kompleksine de yabanc\u0131yd\u0131k.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c O zaman\u0131n k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olarak ne rahat bir atmosfer i\u00e7indeydik! Nas\u0131l bir mucize olmu\u015ftu da kendimizi bir ikinci cins olarak g\u00f6rmek hi\u00e7 akl\u0131m\u0131za gelmemi\u015fti?<\/em>..\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Uyan, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z uyan!! Uyand\u0131\u2026 T\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011fa umut oldu. Onunla birlikte kad\u0131n, erkek; \u00e7ocuk gen\u00e7, ya\u015fl\u0131\u2026 umut, co\u015fku\u2026 sel olup akt\u0131, g\u00fcr\u00fcl g\u00fcr\u00fcl\u2026 Tando\u011fan\u2019da, \u00c7a\u011flayan\u2019da, G\u00fcndo\u011fdu\u2019da\u2026<\/p>\n

Yeni bir g\u00fcn do\u011facak; Atat\u00fcrk\u2019\u00fcn kurdu\u011fu Modern T\u00fcrk Devleti de uyanacak bu silkini\u015fle ve b\u00fct\u00fcn kurumlar\u0131yla \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f T\u00fcrkiye\u2019yi temsil edecek yeniden\u2026 Mucize gibi bir \u015fey olacak; sabah olacak\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Sabah; bir yeni d\u00fcnya gibi geliyorsun;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6ylesine s\u00fcsl\u00fc, \u00f6ylesine sadesin ki\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Sen o kadar g\u00fczelsin ki sabah,<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

O kadar g\u00fczelsin ki.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> (\u00d6zdemir Asaf)<\/em><\/p>\n

17\/05\/2007<\/p>\n

Adapazar\u0131
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\u00c7ocuklara merhamet duymayan\u0131m\u0131z var m\u0131d\u0131r? Masum bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131na i\u00e7i titremeyenimiz? D\u00fc\u015f k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ok yo\u011fun etkiler onlar\u0131. Hen\u00fcz yenidirler hayat yolunda; normal oldu\u011funu bilmezler, y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131rlar hemen. Sonra da \u00e7abucak unutuverirler ya\u2026 sanki hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fclmemi\u015f gibi. Ne ho\u015ftur: Ba\u015flarlar k\u0131k\u0131rdamaya. \u00c7ocuk mutluysa mutludur, kederliyse kederli\u2026 Ve bu duygular\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131 s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131na ya\u015far, ertelemez. Ben k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 biraz daha k\u0131r\u0131lgan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[467],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2989"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2989"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2989\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2989"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2989"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tamayacikel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2989"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}